• Apytele@sh.itjust.works
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      On one hand I hate to do to men what we’ve done to bi women for time immemorial, but on the other hand also what if it’s really really hot…?*

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    Anything but coverage on what’s going on in Gaza, Sudan, or Congo

    Very telling and insulting that this pointless bullshit is what they choose to publish, out of all things

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    If the marriage is sexually exclusive, why would you care? If the marriage was open, why would you care? If you’re worried about infidelity, then what gender they might choose still seems like a trivial issue.

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      You shouldn’t care, but most straight women do. Straight women are uniquely prejudiced against bisexual men.

      I for one want to know what the hell is going on in the heads of the handful of bisexual women that wouldn’t date another bisexual woman. 🤣

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        I’m confused by the 15% of bi men who wouldn’t date a bi man. Like 3% is within stupid people levels, but 15% is a bit much

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          That’s cowardice, put data in there. Just by statistical aberration you get a number that is probably not zero.

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            Amusingly, you could probably get numbers for straight:straight if you specify that the activity is strictly dating, and the relationship is platonic.

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        Maybe 1/3 of straight women, 2/3 of bi women, and most gay & bi men is enough of a dating pool, though? I’m sure not near 1/3 of straight and bi guys would be into me personally.

        And I can believe the 2/3 thing. I land in the 1/3 and it feels like a minority view.

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          Ok, but it’s not about being into you personally, it’s about rejecting you based on a marginalized group you’re a part of that shouldn’t be an issue.

          Within the lesbian community that 4/5 is something we had to work for because biphobia was rampant among us for a long time, and we’re still working on it.

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    So? He’s made a commitment to be with you alone. If he’s a decent man, then there’s nothing to worry about. It’s not like straight men have never cheated on their partners.

    Although the fact that this subject never was broached prior to you getting hitched is somewhat concerning.

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    Saying so after the wedding is a douche move. He probably should have mentioned it earlier in the relationship.