• kurmudgeon@lemmy.worldEnglish
    44·
    23 days ago

    When you tell them that you love them, and their response is, how can you say you love me when you don’t know God? To her, because I don’t believe in God, my notion of love is different than her’s and it’s meaningless. Essentially when I told her I loved her, my version of love didn’t involve God in any way or have any reference to God’s love, so it’s not as powerful.

    The funny part is, we’re no longer together because she cheated on me with another so-called Christian.

  • gigastasio@sh.itjust.works
    31·
    23 days ago

    She would say weird shit like “I love you with Christ’s love,” and I never knew how to respond. When she got turned on, though, all that Jesus shit went right out the window and she was like, boy, that thing is going in every hole I’ve got.

    It only lasted a couple months. But goddamn what a wild couple of months.

    • DomeGuy@lemmy.world
      15·
      23 days ago

      While English has largely commingled conditional and unconditional love, as a Christian I feel obligated to point out that Jesus definitely doesn’'t love you because He wants to fuck you.

      • cybervseas@lemmy.worldEnglish
        9·
        23 days ago

        There’s a documented thing where a lot of things we normally would think are “icky” we will overlook when aroused.

        • XeroxCool@lemmy.world
          41·
          23 days ago

          At no point should anal seem interesting. Hormones go up. Brain go dumb. It doesn’t really take much digging to find “documentation”, just keep watching whatever it is for an extra 5 minutes

  • baggachipz@sh.itjust.works
    19·
    23 days ago

    Sex the night I met her -> no problem

    Sex with the window open for all to hear and see -> no problem

    Me saying “god damn you’re hot” -> HUGE PROBLEM