• yermaw@sh.itjust.works
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    10 days ago

    I’m glad my childhood raised me to be a pathological people pleaser utterly terrified of anyone’s disapproval. Nobody complaining about these sorts of people

    • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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      10 days ago

      On one hand, I am the same way. On the other hand push that further in the same direction to get BPD, and people absolutely complain about people who have it. I guess also my wife complains about my people pleasing sometimes…