• XeroxCool@lemmy.world
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    34 minutes ago

    “I don’t remember you” was my idea to say the last 5 years have completely changed my life, but I’d probably assume I got Alzheimers ahead of schedule. One sentence is tough.

    “It worked out” feels like what if want to hear, but that ignores growing global and national issues. Might even make me lazier, believing in some grand natural path, creating a paradox.

    I could send details on the job move that made life better, but I’m on the path that took me out of that job already, so why try to change it?

    Are monetary moves the only thing that would work for me? Not to change my route, but give me some more padding today?

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      50 minutes ago

      I was there five years ago, ten years ago, fifteen twenty and thirty years ago, and I said that to them. I was right. But it didn’t help.

      Don’t beat yourself up, it takes a lot of guts to love.

  • lonefighter@sh.itjust.works
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    8 hours ago

    Don’t move across the country with him, get a divorce, your gut instincts are right, he’s been cheating on you this whole time and he’s about to financially ruin you.