• NOT_RICK@lemmy.worldEnglish
      3·
      13 days ago

      My father always said, the ocean washes away all your sins. He meant that it helps get rid of a hangover, but I find that it helps in a lot of other ways too.

  • Boomer Humor Doomergod@lemmy.worldEnglish
    4·
    13 days ago

    Listening to a really good album.

    There’s a good chance my wife will find me crying over Everything Goes Numb tonight.

    It’s been a fucking week.

    • Tujio@lemmy.world
      2·
      13 days ago

      Oh man. Streetlight strikes some emotional chords that nobody else can reach for me. Somewhere in the Between is my personal favorite album, but Everything Goes Numb is also 100% amazing songs. Plus, I swear that every time I’ve seen them live I walk out thinking “that might have been the best fucking show I’ve ever been to.”

      Whatever you’re going through, I hope you wake up in a better place in a better time.

      • Boomer Humor Doomergod@lemmy.worldEnglish
        2·
        13 days ago

        Thanks sibling. It’s been a thousand tiny cuts this week but I’m holding on.

        Both of those albums hold a ton of significance for me. I actually sang the song “Somewhere in the Between” as a lulllaby to my kid, but ETGN helped me through my other kid’s suicide attempt.

        I’m glad to find someone who loves Streetlight like I do. If we haven’t met in the pit already, I hope we do soon.

        (Assuming Tomas ever finishes the next album)

  • Sarah@lemmy.world
    3·
    13 days ago

    Writing! It exorcises the bad feelings onto the page where they are trapped forever.

  • RBWells@lemmy.world
    3·
    13 days ago

    Sad sad songs.

    Boulder to Birmingham

    Red dirt girl

    Nick Drake song Road because he did not find a road to take him home.

    Dancing can, if I feel free enough. Like going out dancing someplace.

    • WhatsHerBucket@lemmy.world
      2·
      13 days ago

      I had a neighbor who used a pair of scissors to cut his grass regularly. It wasn’t a big yard, maybe 12ft x 12ft, but he’d be out there all the time kneeling and trimming his grass.

      One day I asked why he didn’t just use a mower, and he said it gives him a chance to get some time away from his wife lol

      Haven’t thought of that dude in a long time.

  • Okokimup@lemmy.world
    2·
    11 days ago

    A hot bath. Talking to a good listener.

    This may sound dumb, but resolving the problem. I was super stressed yesterday when I got an alert that my paid parking timed out. I thought i would be able to extend it on the app, but turned out you could only do that before the timer ended. And the website said you could ask a “live agent” any questions, but there was only AI with pre-selected topics.

    So I had to hurry back across the city to pay for another period and I was LIVID but as soon as I got the next period covered (and no ticket) I felt better. I was (am) still angry on an intellectual level about the garbage parking company and their bald-faced lies about live agents, but I no longer felt the need to rage-scream.