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「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」@sh.itjust.works to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 2 months ago

How would you feel if someone moved next to your residence and you found out they're a cop? Would you move away? Or try to get on their good side? Or something else?

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How would you feel if someone moved next to your residence and you found out they're a cop? Would you move away? Or try to get on their good side? Or something else?

「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」@sh.itjust.works to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 2 months ago
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  • NONE@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    Nothing. Not even talk to them. Being cordially distant.

    • proudblond@lemmy.world
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      2 months ago

      Pretty much how I am with all of my neighbors anyway…

      • NONE@lemmy.world
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        2 months ago

        Same.

  • Sineljora@sh.itjust.works
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    2 months ago

    Mostly mind my own business, but expect to have to record and report a domestic abuse.

  • gwl [he/him]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Just ignore them? I already ignore my neighbours that aren’t pricks, ignoring a prick is no different

  • Quilotoa@lemmy.ca
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    2 months ago

    We had cops for neighbours at one place and one down the street in another. Both great people. Used to get together with them, kids played together, etc.

    • prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      Great people don’t remain cops for long, so I really doubt it

      • Quilotoa@lemmy.ca
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        I still know one of them. Have been an acquaintance of another cop for 15 years. Still great people.

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          Until they witness their coworkers do awful things and say nothing.

          And I can tell you with certainty that’s what they do, because the ones that do try to do the right thing are fired at best, and literally murdered at worst.

          • Quilotoa@lemmy.ca
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            !! What country do you live in?

            • prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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              The US. Look up Christopher Dorner for just one, high profile, example.

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                I don’t think you can judge cops worldwide by the cops in your country.

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                  Ok.

  • dan1101@lemmy.world
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    Cops can be fine, many of them want to do good. But law enforcement also attracts/breeds a certain type of thumbhead person that either loves or hates you.

  • RebekahWSD@lemmy.world
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    Cop lives somewhere down the street.

    I ignore him.

    But I also have talked to the neighbors on purpose like. Twice. In almost twenty years lol.

  • Marshezezz@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    I wouldn’t really be able to just up and move so I’d just avoid them as much as possible and hope for the best

  • chiliedogg@lemmy.world
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    A bunch of social media accounts with their name and address may start attacking Scientology and right-wing crazies.

  • AA5B@lemmy.world
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    I did have one down the street at one point. We each minded our own business and I considered it good for my family’s safety to have a police car always parked nearby

  • PetteriPano@lemmy.world
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    I’d be more discreet about my moonshine operation, that’s for sure.

  • Goldholz @lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Not american here, cops here are actually a trained job with multiple years of training before going out. 3 years pure training minimum and the slightes missbehaviour can get you fired and suspended from your job which will be marked down

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      Things are more strict in America, they hold up a mirror to you and if you breathe on it and it fogs up, then you are hired.

    • 𝔄 𝔰𝔢𝔫𝔱𝔦𝔢𝔫𝔱 𝔭𝔦𝔢𝔠𝔢 𝔬𝔣 𝔠𝔥𝔢𝔢𝔰𝔢@lemmy.world
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      I hope earnestly you don’t mean German cops.

      • Goldholz @lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        Lol no i dont. Augsburg City Club got raided by 500 police just so the state could show their power again

        • 𝔄 𝔰𝔢𝔫𝔱𝔦𝔢𝔫𝔱 𝔭𝔦𝔢𝔠𝔢 𝔬𝔣 𝔠𝔥𝔢𝔢𝔰𝔢@lemmy.world
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          Yeah, I thought your name narrowed it down to DACH and there’s a lot of German cop apologists out there, because they’re white and only interact with cops during traffic stops.

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            Oh hell no. Germany is racist af all over

  • 𝕱𝖎𝖗𝖊𝖜𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍@lemmy.world
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    I would go out of my way to avoid them

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    My neighbour growing up was a cop. He and his wife were Christian fundies who had like 8 kids.

    I literally never had a single bad interaction with them, and by all accounts he was an alright dad to those kids. I still see him when I visit my folks for the holidays, and when I do, I see his kids now all grown up with kids of their own visiting their parents

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    Helped my cop neighbor move his gun safe into his house. We mostly keep to ourselves but I’d rather him on my side in a crisis.

    • 「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」@sh.itjust.worksOP
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      Helped my cop neighbor move his gun safe into his house.

      You left your fingerprints/DNA on the gun safe… 😱

      I watch too many tv to know what’s coming, he’s a dirty one and he’s gonna frame you for something.

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    Would that be worse than the crackhead who lived there before them?

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      Yes

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