Leaving the shopping cart in a parking spot and not in the cart corral.
This, it’s the litmus teat for basic human dignity
Teat…lulz
Have some dighnity
Bonus points if, when called out for it or otherwise inconvenienced for not putting the cart where it belongs, they double down and continue to dump the cart in a parking spot.
My parents and I were at the store last week, coming back to our car in a handicap spot (my mom recently had knee surgery). Two assholes had already dropped their carts off in the blue painted areas next to our car blocking the door, and another asshole literally pushed his cart in front of us to join the pile.
The store’s entrance where all the carts were was literally a dozen steps away.
I was steaming mad all day, absolutely ruined my outlook on humanity for a few days
Whip whoop whoop boop boop, Cart Narcs!
no. doing this takes away jobs.
Being rude to people that are providing goods/services
Instant red flag. Double red flag if it seems like they’re getting something out of it
The Confederate Flag.
They think corporations and for-profit organizations ever have their best interest at heart.
My man!
I doubt this would be first comment on Reddit.
PS: I wasn’t raised like that I had ti find out myself, cause I felt there is something wrong…
They’re a registered Republican.
Littering
They commit sexual harassment and assault.
Seriously, just keep it in your pants and keep your damn hands to yourself, why is that so impossible for your lizard brain to comprehend?
When someone blasts loud music in a public space.
Not throwing out their trash at a fast food place because “someone will take care of it”.
Someone who spouts, Every single thing comes back to ‘gods plan’
You got hurt and lost a job, God’s plan…
Lost your baby to cancer, God’s plan…
Mom got remarried after her first husband died in an accident, God’s plan…
Gets offensive after a while
They use violent language frequently.
Had a manager that said in a meeting, “Looks like I’ll have to start taking employees to the back and shooting them in the head.”
This was over his employees not performing.
Joke or not… wtf.
YES. I play online games, and there’s one guy that I played with a little bit that routinely refers to in-game fighting as rape, gangbang, and other violent sexual imagry. He recently started making these comments while trying to hit on one girl we play with, and it just feels so wrong.
Not putting shit away in public when they could easily do so with minor effort for someone’s/everyone’s benefit. Shopping carts, plates at a food court, trash, etc.
I am a firm believer in always returning your shopping cart to either the inside of the store or a corral. I dumped a guy over not doing it once 😂
The other day I watched someone try to dump their trash into a trash can and they just completely missed and got it all over the floor. They just left it there and walked away. I don’t think I could even force myself to do something like this. It seems inhuman. 😑
Person A is carrying a big heavy thing and person B (carrying nothing) doesn’t get out of the way/hold the door
I work in a grocery store and see this all the time when pulling heavy pallets.
Sometimes I’m using the electric lifting equipment. That equipment takes the heavy part out of the equation and substitutes in a piece of unfeeling and uncaring kit that can absolutely ruin someone’s day, and it doesn’t always stop on a dime.
I used to be in your shoes. It’s like people gravitate and intentionally want to step in front of it, even in huge wide open aisles.
When they interrupt and talk over the top of people. They should have been taught not to do that as a child.
I was a latchkey kid with early onset major depression.
I developed my moral compass when in my thirties I realized I was ignorant and my father was defending extrajudicial detention and torture of POWs by the United States. (That was the sort of thing masterminds did in movies to show they were evil, so WTF, America?)
Since then, after considerable deep dives, I’ve come to the conclusion that no one is raise right, that the industrial age decimated the extended family in which kids were raised by a community of adults, and parents weren’t driven to exhaustion by work.
Mental illness and abuse in the developed world is intergenerational. My parents are mad as hatters, but they didn’t have a chance. And their parents (The Greatest Generation) were traumatized. One was a WWII sniper with 30+ kills and ghosts in his eyes.
The human species is flying by the seat of its pants. We’re in uncharted territory. It’s not possible to raise kids right so much as with more or less functionality, which is not the same as capacity to cope.
