Be it a personality quirk, something they’re wearing, or just the way they look. What makes them instantly hot?
Their taste in music. There aren’t enough metal heads in my life.
Compassion for the vulnerable and weak.
Single straight man that works in child care. Let me tell you, single mom’s treat compassion like catnip. I keep them as far away from me outside of the school environment because me simply enjoying my job which naturally involves compassion is intoxicating to them.
Hard pass for me dating a single mom but if you are having a hard time as a straight single man dating (only perspective I can give advice on) is to be genuine and compassionate. Instant attraction for 99% of women looking for partners.
They use Arch Linux.
How you doin’?
I’m a lonely male so the answer is if they give me a modicum of attention and kindness.
I’m a non-lonely male and my answer is basically the same.
It used to be a pulse, but at my age I can’t be so picky.
Feels like digging up corpses is something you’d need youth for
Just need a job as a mortician, or become friends with a mortician who has questionable morals and needs money.
Sure, but how many of them do you bring?
If you can get a youth to dig corpses up for you, I think you’ve negated the need for the corpses in the first place
No accounting for taste
Being my wife
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I also choose this guy’s wife.
Being kind
Unfortunately, I seem to favor the neurotic. It’s not a thing I can control. I know damn well not to act on it, but attraction/infatuation can be a bastard sometimes. On the flip side, on the not-instant side of things, plenty of togetherness and shows of affection and tenderness can also call forth attraction over time.
- That they give a shit about other people, and contribute in some way to their community/society.
- Capacity for/evidence of personal growth. This one’s not always easy to see, but it’s amazing when you do.
Most people are going to say personality, but I am going to go with breast size.
A quote (or mis-quote) from “So I Married an Axe Murderer” https://youtu.be/W_ENWgPmXnY?t=134
The larger the personality the better!
Huge…tracts of land!
Funny.
Integrity
Unapologetic intellectual curiosity! I absolutely love being around people who love learning new things and who get excited to find out more when they discover a new topic.
It’s one of the first qualities that really stood out when I first met my husband - in a University lecture with 1000 people, he just nonchalantly sat down in the frontmost row because that’s where he could hear the professor the best and ask questions. No shyness or awkwardness about it, which I found incredibly inspiring for some reason! I usually hid in one of the back rows because I was massively overthinking everything and afraid that the professor might call me out when he sees me not paying attention.A nice, plump dumper.
Instantly? It’s a somewhat vague term, but magnanimity, having “loftiness of spirit.” To me, it means that when they enter a room they carry a subtle gravity. Their eyes are focused on what and who is around them, taking in each in turn with a clear understanding of what they see but a respect for what they don’t. A trim smile that welcomes greetings and promises warm words in return. They breathe with the calm ease of someone healthy and comfortable in their own skin, and with each step they appear to not just approach their physical destination, but their own personal fulfillment.
So…a cat?
