• whoisearth@lemmy.ca
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    3 days ago

    So glad I grew out of this. I still drink copious amounts of tea but any amount of weed is destructive.

    I’ll share something I posted a good decade ago on Reddit.

    I used to smoke at least a joint a day sometimes multiple. I was consistently wake and bake outside of work. You know what weed does that no one wants to discuss? It makes you complacent. It sucks your drive to do anything. As a young person that’s a horrible place to be. You are young, you should be taking risks and you should be striving for better.

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      3 days ago

      I agree with you, and I think weed really helped me even though I’m not using any right now.

      Sometimes it’s extremely beneficial to be chemically pushed into a good mood and satisfied with just existing, when otherwise existence just seems to be misery and pain.

      But it is not a permanent fix. It’s a band-aid while you find more permanent ways to improve your life. But band-aids can hurt to take off when you’re done with them.

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        2 days ago

        Same. If I’m in too much pain, the only motivation I have is to fix the pain. You’ll never guess what does that.

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      2 days ago

      It makes you complacent.

      Sometimes that’s good.

      I quit for a while to try to get a government job. My dream job. They offered, then rescinded because of trans/Trump’s EO.

      Now I don’t give a fuck. I’m sober for work, but otherwise when I’m home I’m high.

      Like I can’t do anything about climate change/the fact that the president is a rapist, but I can get stoned, enjoy food that feels like it’s making love to my taste buds, make art that my fucked up brain tells me is a masterpiece and have mind blowing sex that means I don’t have to engage with conscious thought at all.

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      3 days ago

      I find weed is like alcohol, if it’s a sometimes thing it’s perfectly fine, but if it’s something you’re doing daily or every time you have a night to relax it’s a problem.

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        2 days ago

        I mean I get you, but if I don’t smoke my weed my gut shits out everything. Like, things it shouldn’t be shitting out. Five different doctors argued with me to start smoking weed before I started (three of them doctors I was paying, two that I am just friends with), and now I ain’t stopping.

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        3 days ago

        Exactly. The danger is using it to escape your life. Life shouldn’t need an escape. If you feel it does you have a larger more difficult conversation you need to have with yourself.