• teslekova@sh.itjust.works
    283·
    8 hours ago

    If it was just about a cute body, people would just get Realdolls with warming coils. Some people are satisfied by that, sure, but not many.

    What most of us like is a body animated by a vivacious and interesting intelligence of some kind.

    And here’s the fun part: the more interesting the spooky animating ghost intelligence, the less cute the body needs to be.

    My partner’s butt is, shape wise, probably pretty similar to many others. But when I squeeze it in a certain way, and it moves lithely in my hands like a big old disco cat… It’s genuinely the best butt in my universe.

  • CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world
    30·
    10 hours ago

    I’m getting to the point my tastes are… inverting. Younger men looking better and better these days since older men for me is now actually old men lol

    • did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOP
      18·
      10 hours ago

      I actually thought about this. I don’t think when I’m 50 I’ll be into older men anymore, since what I consider “older men” now would either be around my age or just old-old men, lmao.

        • UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.worldEnglish
          5·
          1 hour ago

          As someone who has aged, I gotta disagree.

          In high school, 20 year olds were ancient and wise.

          In college, 20 year olds became peers and competitors

          Once I started working, 20 year olds were the newbies

          Now 20 year olds are indistinguishable from babies. Just having a conversation that ends with “After this we’re going to the bar, you want to come?” and getting told “Uh… I’m not quite old enough to drink” blows my mind every time I hear it.