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    Most people couldn’t afford that. But everyone had a living room and people would come over. Everyone had a grill and people would come over. Most people had kids and kids would come over.

    Life was much more real life social.

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      When I was living in apartments, the nicer spots would have big community fire pits in between blocks. They were great for mixing and mingling with other apartment residents, especially during the holidays or weekends with good weather.

      One of the more annoying parts of being a home owner right now is getting people over to your place and finding places for all their cars. So much easier when everyone just kinda lives in the same two or three blocks and can walk over to catch a show or BBQ or play board games.

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    I can’t imagine people on Lemmy of all places having enthusiasm for socializing and conversations.

    You like the novelty of it, but you would sit there alone and imagine having friends and then you would imagine you know how to actually listen to other people instead of just waiting for an opportunity to talk about linux or indie steam games.

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    Love sunken living rooms!!! Why is this even a shitpost ??

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    Honestly, the Lotion Pit is better interior decorating than modern “is it a home or the surface of the sun oh my god everything is so bland and white” interior design.

    I’m old enough to remember 70s design still being normal and life just felt way cooler.

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      Yeah, I can’t stand modern shades of gray. Everyone decorates their house like they’re about to list it for sale. Give me colors! Give me silly pictures, and plants, and nonsense. It’s your home, it doesn’t need to be sterile.

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    I had a house with something like the first one, although it had a railing installed.

    At first I hated the railing and considered removing it. Then I slipped on the hardwood steps on my way down into the pit. A whole 20 inches doesn’t seem like a lot, but let me tell you that hitting my ass halfway down was enough to make me re-think all of it.

    Aesthetically, conversation pits are amazing. That said, they are absolutely built to fuck up someone’s day the very moment they’re not being careful.

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      yeah i’m in the stage of life we gotta think about hoyer lifts and i am not getting one of those down and then up outta a conversation pit

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    The concept behind this design is really fascinating and actually harkens back to very very old house design, like 1500s, where people would have a little cubby with benches next to a fire.

    Read about Frank Lloyd Wright and his first few house designs (i think the Fallingwater house is a key one) to get the bigger picture on this. He (in ~1910 i think) literally brought back an element of domestic architecture we’d left behind. Comfort pits from the 70s are downstream of this, in my opinion.

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    “It put’s the lotion on its skin” pit aside, a fair bit of that stepped layout has some correlation with the higher rate of swinger or “key parties” that took place from the late 50’s into the 70’s. A fuck pit, if you will. Bring 2 buckets.

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    You can make the niche without the pit. Unless you have some reason at all to use the different level, it’s completely unnecessary.

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    that top right one genuinely just looks like a pit to hell i don’t think anyone’s gonna have a casual conversation in there

    unless you’re potatos and chell, of course

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        sorry, personally i take residence under a monolithic chunk of stone so i was unable to get this reference

        i was also only born within the last two decades

        the silence of the lambs is a 1991 american psychological horror thriller film.

        missed it by one (and a half, give or take) ¯\_(ツ)_/¯