I swear, when someone’s talking to me now, I can barely understand what’s happening. I know I’m no spring chicken anymore but I wish I was 16 again lol when I experience things it’s like it’s a memory or like I’m at the back of my head. It’s hard to explain. Every thing here is getting gradually worse over the years. Suffice to say, I’m not looking forward to my 40’s…

That being said I feel like I’m making a big deal out of something most women my age just get on with and put up with for the rest of their lives without complaining

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    I’m about to turn 40, no one I know has experienced this at 30, much less 40. You have something else going on, this isn’t aging, like we have all told you before.

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        The fact that you have these symptoms indicates something is going on. If the tests say everything is normal, then they are missing something

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          So much was tested and I’ve listed off the top of my head a bunch of things that were tested. What do you suppose they could be missing?

          Without getting my magazine-thickness stack of lab result papers I had them print out, I’ve had TSH, hb1ac, potassium, sodium, urea, LH, FSH, prolactin, DHEA, testosterone, androgens, b12, folate, ferritin, full blood count, full white cell count, IgA, calcium, estrogen, ca-125, cholesterol, etc tested.

          My white cells have been low since the testing began, but I was told this is normal because as you age your immune system declines.

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            I already read what you just copy and pasted. I’m not a doctor. I don’t know what is wrong with you. But if they run tests and tell you everything is normal, then the appropriate response is to say “I don’t care if the tests say everything is normal, I still feel like shit.”

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              I’d say “I’m being silly and need to get on with it. Even my family have told me to stop complaining about my health.”

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                Of course your family has told you to stop complaining. Hearing someone moan about their poor health is annoying and boring. We don’t want to hear about it either, hence all the comments you are getting here telling you to stop making posts trying to normalize your clearly abnormal condition. We don’t know what is wrong with you and can’t help you. You need to see a doctor. If the doctor tells you everything is normal, tell the doctor that they suck big fat donkey dick at doing their job and tell them to refer you to a doctor who isn’t phoning it in.

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                  Changing doctors won’t change the fact the lab results will keep coming back normal, as they have done over and over and over since summer last year.

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    You’ve already made a similar post and people have told you to go see a doctor. What more do you want?

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        If you have the ability to see other and new doctors you should take the opportunity to do so. No doctor has ever told you this is normal for being in your 30s

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          They’ve ran loads of bloodwork tests on me. Only thing that came back low is my white cells, but I was told that’s normal because as you age your immune system declines, after your teenage years.

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                  Off the top of my head, without getting my magazine-thickness stack of lab result papers I had them print out, I’ve had TSH, hb1ac, potassium, sodium, urea, LH, FSH, prolactin, DHEA, testosterone, androgens, b12, folate, ferritin, full blood count, full white cell count, IgA, calcium, estrogen, ca-125, cholesterol, etc tested.

                  My white cells have been low since the testing began, but I was told this is normal because as you age your immune system declines.

                  What do you suppose they are missing? There’s very little to miss, it would seem.

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    Maybe do a sleep study. Lots of undiagnosed sleep apnea around this age. It gets worse over time. Even if you don’t snore.

    edit: feeling déjà vu. Did i recommend this to you before? Either way, most of this is definitely not normal or age related.

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      Everything’s normal, though. I’ve had vitamin, blood count, and hormone tests and was told this is all normal. This is something I’m just going to have to get on with, but I was asking for advice to manage/cope with the things I mentioned.

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        All I can say is, I’m a woman over 40 and if I experienced those symptoms for even one day I would see every doctor in the state until they figured out what was wrong with me. But it’s your body, not mine, and you should live how you want to live.

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          Are you 100% sure you’re not experiencing those symptoms? It’s possible you’ve gotten so used to them that your brain’s filtered them out. I know someone who had issues with his spine, and while the issue that would be causing pain is still there, he no longer feels it because he’s used to it.

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            I am mid thirties and have not experienced anything remotely like that and would be very concerned if I had.Throwing up when you wake up is not normal, neither is this extreme lethargy. You’re 32, not 80

            Some of this seems neurological which is concerning and can be harder to get diagnosed. You could ask for some kind of neurological tests or imaging if you haven’t had that yet?

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      I’ve had multiple opinions and all have come to the same conclusion. Einstein once said the definition of insanity is repeating the same thing and expecting a different result, and I’ve done that enough already because I have a stack of papers about a magazine’s thickness in lab results.