• 🌈 vanta rainbow black 🌈@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    6 hours ago

    feeling sorry for lots of the people in this thread and their prudish mindsets

    i’m queer and in seattle so casual nudity is pretty normal here, we even have a whole beach for it! i go tits out at bridge raves and pride and other stuff all the time and nobody cares. and half the time i’m wearing see-through tops with no bra! like… sometimes you’ll be hanging out and some people will just be naked and it’s fine. most of my friends have seen my nudes i post on mastodon! it’s good and fine and okay. it’s only weird if you make it weird

    • did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOP
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      4 hours ago

      oh, i’ve always found it kind of funny, actually.

      the fediverse/lemmy have a very progressive demographic, but they can also be surprisingly prudish when it comes to anything sex-related, especially when it’s coming from a female perspective.

      after being on here for months, i’ve somehow been branded as “the horny poster,” even though most of my posts aren’t explicitly horny or freaky. they’re more observational, almost diaristic, in the way they approach these kinds of topics. for example, i don’t find this post horny or freaky at all.

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        40 seconds ago

        I’ve never seen you post something that is not related to sex in some way, so yeah you are definetly a horny poster for me.

        I don’t mind though.

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        3 hours ago

        and don’t even get me started on the “mark this as NSFW, please” police patrolling around here, lmao. (the tamest post you can imagine.)

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          2 hours ago

          Ehhhh, I can understand people might hold a pretty large safety margin for “will my boss be OK with this”.

          Edit: did some profile stalking. None of that is remotely nsfw, screw those people.