I woke up this afternoon feeling so strange. It’s not my room, it’s not my bed, and nothing feels familiar. My family isn’t here, and suddenly there’s a man, my husband, sharing my personal space for the first time. I don’t even know how to explain it, but I feel like an impostor just walking around and doing things in this place.

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    23 hours ago

    Shaming people doesn’t force them to change and calling a woman an owned animal is sexist whether you believe it or not.

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      23 hours ago

      If a woman is beaten by her husband would it be sexist to call her an abused wife?

      Would it be racist to say “so and so was a victim of a hate crime”?

      I didn’t commit the crime, I just pointed it out.

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          23 hours ago

          No, I said this situation sounds less like growing up and more like being a pet.

          That’s called simile, a figure of speech that directly compares two different things to highlight a shared quality.

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            23 hours ago

            It’s easier to argue with me than to have some introspection on the type of language you choose when talking about women.

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              23 hours ago

              I don’t understand why you’re projecting that on me.

              I’ve explained my position and I stand behind it and that’s all I can do.

              Like I said, I think she’s a victim, and I’m sorry for her situation. My wife considers me a feminist and that’s all the validation I need. You can choose to believe what you want.

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                23 hours ago

                Waking the walk and talking the talk are two separate things.

                Maybe resist comparing women to animals in the future, Mr. Feminist.