Had a ‘big sis’ friend tell my naive and timid ass that saying a couple decades ago. Got reminded of it (not like that) today and had a chuckle.

For context, if a woman is wearing matching bra and panties it’s likely she knew you’d be seeing them later that night.

So, I’m curious, you think it’s true? Any other thoughts?

  • It’s bullshit. What undergarments I wear have nothing to do with how horny I am. Sometimes I wear matching garments because I felt like it, other times it’s just because laundry day happened to line up

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      This makes sense in your context, but I am assuming that the context OP is discussing is the woman is going on a date that she knows will at least end up in her getting undressed enough that the other person will see her underwear.

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        Sure, but that’s still not necessarily sex?

        One can also wear fun undergarments to a date and then decide not to undress or have sex - usually I think of it as “in case something happens” rather than expecting it from the outset. If nobody sees it, it’s not a disappointment, it’s just fun regardless.

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    Everything is so expensive now. If it doesn’t have stains or holes I’m counting it as a matching set.

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      If it doesn’t have stains or holes I’m counting it as a matching set.

      lol

      I never thought I’d get into thrift shopping. Now I regularly visit a couple local thrift shops and have gotten some pretty decent finds. (Which excites me more than it probably should. Being an adult is not what I expected. lé sigh )

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        This is a great idea. Some most of my favorite undergarments aren’t made anymore and all the new stuff is so uncomfortable.

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    I like my stuff to match, so it wouldn’t be them deciding. Me getting into bed with all my friends tho, that might be a reason for me to want it to match

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    I think that if they don’t match then you just smear garbage juice on them until they do.