We all gotta examine our choices from time to time an make sure we are ok with what we considered when made them.

Otherwise we’re likely to end up close minded and arrogant / cocksure and self-righteous.

This comment reads like a person who keeps being pulled into previous lives, and started hallucinating they were some monkish writer.

Are you ok?

Thank you.

All of this sucks to think about after remembering what all is involved whenever this happens. As much as I need help in life right now, I want as much time as possible between now and then… I have nobody else left, my mom just passed unexpectedly in March, except for the aunt and uncle who abused me for 20 years who have been dead to me for almost 8 years now, and a highly estranged dad.

I’ve met others who are im even rougher shape than me, so I know things aren’t as worse as they could be, so I’d rather have time shared than whatever is to come after our time runs out… anyways, thanks for being so nice. This is all so hard

Unfortunately I don’t think that there is any real ability for it to happen without her estate liquidation. Her home is lovely nice and in great shape and her many high-value belongings are in great shape too but they have to be sold I think I can’t really even stand asking a single question about all this but I certainly don’t feel as though I’m being cheated.

Especially considering my current situation is partially due to tha fallout from something I thought would never result in an inheritance much less a positive relationship (my having come out as trans 2 years ago while living and helping my mom care for her for 5 years while healing from some really intense trauma and the threat of more that was my prior renting situation… Aaaand being let go the same week due to company buyout just led to having to move out without somewhere to go) so anything I am getting is unexpected and icing on the cake that is having any relationship at all with my last remaining family member.

Oh and take a look at some of the other replies I’ve made as to my thoughts on the rest of your comment, sorry I just don’t feel like typing it out anymore. I have led a pretty rough life that still isn’t out of the weeds yet, and it wears down on a girl to reshare sometimes.

This shit gives me real, lasting panic, so I actually want other peoples ethical discussion. I’ve reached the limits of my current strength, but don’t want to be caught with pants down should they pass soon.

Then stop trying to make the baby and find a better approach, because both inconvenient facts can be true, the things we tried take time, and time was of the most high of priorities… unless the goal wasn’t “making the baby”.

Thanks for recognizing the effort.

But in the brief look at replies that I gave, it did appear to be rather unkind, and certainly missing any reply of use. I wouldn’t be surprised that it only got worse in the time I took to make my comment (me be slow typist), and can’t say I blame OP for being upset.

Thats unfortunate. I’m sorry that has happened to you, and totally understand you no longer wanted to continue the discussion.

Would you like for me to take down my post? I am interested myself, but lack the context/cause to adequately ask the question, but will totally be ok taking if down if you’d like.

Edit: and in case I’ve misunderstood, and its my posts content you’ve found to be insulting… all I can say is that it wasn’t my intent, and I’m sorry if that is the case. I did find your post difficult, but I believe I’ve only said anything that might be taken as negative in reference to the post itself and not you in any way.

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Although the app’s designer went and somewhat enshitified things by placing a few features under a subscription, my app for waking up is the best app I’ve ever come across.

Its called Alarmy and the free version is more than enough to make anyone wake up if they really need to.

Maintaining a capitalism based economy for the time being.

Everything else has gotta happen simultaneously anyways to stick, so it has to happen. But we can figure out how to move away from capitalism after we aren’t all so strung along.

No, for yours 😘

Magnum condoms.

I like them big. 💜