I’ll start.
We had great chemistry but different goals. She was religious and looking to marry and thought she could change me, a non-religious person who intends to remain unmarried and childless. I was up front about the lack of religion and the lack of desire for marriage. She was not up front about her intent to change me.
After two months of regular flings she told me we couldn’t see each other anymore, because she wanted someone to go to church with, it was my fault she was living a sinful life (totally), and she was cheating on me with another dude was a Christian.
Be careful you’re not getting catfished. You know, have a video chat at some point with this person. Don’t send them money. Just be safe out there.
Not to be a wet blanket about it, sounds like you’ve been through a lot and sometimes that can leave you vulnerable to people looking to take advantage. Keep your wits about you. You will find what you are looking for.
I appreciate your very good advice, and yeah, it’s something I’m concerned about for sure. Probly do a video chat this weekend 😊