Moreso asking what the experience with porn is like to those in a relationship. Do you watch alone when needed? Do you watch together? Do you consider it enriching, cheating or something else?

  • Return_of_Chippy@lemmy.worldOP
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    14 days ago

    I’m a 5ish orgasms a week kind of guy. My girl and I have lived together for years. More than half of the orgasms come from her and I fucking around. The rest come from porn. Every so often we watch together (2 or 3 times a month with big swings sometimes). She rarely watches on her own as her drive is a good bit lower than mine. Neither of us consider it cheating but we do typically see if sex is on the table before watching. Seems healthy from my perspective but I’d love to hear how it works for others.