I’ll never understand how, as a parent, you can give all of your love to a child, raise them to ha e an inner voice of moral authority, and then be petty and vindictive when they are adults. If my child grew to be a petty, self involved adult (>28) I would wonder where in the world I could have been more present and more connected. Possibly not my fault, but if have to check to make sure.

Has this been anyone’s experience?

Most boomer grandparents I know are “chill” (distant) because they weren’t interested in they’re own kids and they sure af not interested in being grandparents

Estrangement FTW