• chiliedogg@lemmy.world
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    10 days ago

    There’s a spectrum of Ace. I got one am a heteroromantic ace, and I’m a dude. So I am attracted to women romantically, but don’t want to sleep with them.

    It’s a very frustrating combination that makes dating difficult.

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      10 days ago

      So very true. People always think there’s something wrong with you.

      If you dont mind me asking, is it all sex or specific kinds?

      Ive found this is also me to a degree. Enjoy performing things for the partner, but anything done to me does nothing including PiV.

      Difficult to find discourse involving this so Apologies if this is prying lmao

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        10 days ago

        Cuddling and massages are pretty much where it ends with me. I was in a relationship for a while, but it didn’t work out timing-wiss with careers and locations. We still keep in touch and hang out a few times a year though.

        Nice thing about an Ace breakup is there’s less sexual baggage attached to becoming friends again.