• Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.ca
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    2 days ago

    This would seem more accurate to me if it said “Grandparents at 25”. I’m the 25yo parent’s age and for us, people were already considering whether they could afford 1 or 2 children with mortgage and childcare costs. I guess if we had the big screen TVs, cellphones stronger than computers, gaming computers, and cheap airfare around the world, many of us would have also decided parenting was much too expensive.

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        Nothing fancy, some generic 2560x1440 Acer IPS

        I have a 4k OLED w/ HDR for gaming or whatever my main activity is, a second 2560x1440 for background videos, but I want a vertical monitor for terminal outputs and documents. Also just more space when I’m juggling a lot of windows

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    Baby: costs thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars over a minimum of 18 years

    Monitor: shows memes and games, costs a few hundred dollars for a good one, one time purchase

    Obviously the child is the stupid financial decision

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      It depends on where you live. Believe it or not, kids still care for their elderly parents in some nations.

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        Making a life-changing decision - for more than just yourself - on the assumption that they will want anything to do with you in 40 years is, how do I put this… stupid as fuck?

        And that assumes they also are able-bodied, of sound mind and judgement, can care for any others financially…

        My folks are getting up there in age, and I’m not getting any younger myself. They are religious, I’m not. I’m LGBT, they are bigoted. I can understand the big picture of caring for others through community, they don’t. They are still very capable and mobile, I’m disabled. What side of the fence do you think I’m on?

        They could have just used a fucking condom. They should have. They didn’t.

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    Here in Sweden I’m experiencing this with both older and younger generations. I know no one my age that has a kid, but so many younger generations have at least one. My little sister has two, and most of her friends do too. It’s weird.

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    Two monitors suck, don’t fall for it. Traded out my 24" & 27" setup for a single 32" and loving it

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      The key is triple monitors so you don’t have a bezel in the middle of your field of view.

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        bezel in the middle of your field of view

        One monitor straight ahead for games, 2nd monitor off to the side for discord or some media.

        Or 2nd monitor for the map of the game in the first monitor (game devs!! Pretty please?!).

      • I_Has_A_Hat@lemmy.world
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        Triple monitors. Highest quality in the center. One off to the side for videos/discord/other side programs. One off to the side mounted vertically for reading documents and web pages.

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          I had the goofiest setup years ago… It was a single 16:9 1080p in the middle, with two 4:3 (1024x768?) monitors rotated. The sizes were just right so the pixel density was the same, and the sides only had a little bit of overscan when joined to imitate an ultrawide.___

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          I’m more a fan of identical triple monitors and keeping them all in the same orientation (all vertical for doing a lot of programming; all horizontal for everything else), but that might just be my perfectionism coming through.

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      Got a curved 45" ultrawide. It’s one of the highlights of my day sitting in front that thing.

      Still, dual monitors can be useful for sure. It may look ‘messy’, but definitely functional.