Not sure if they do it deliberately, but there’s like this sorta expectation to sympathize with parents who despite being poor still have children. Didn’t they make a CHOICE though? Do you think they should be solely responsible for making it?

  • MrOtingocni@lemmy.world
    41·
    3 days ago

    Children are going to be made whether we can afford them or not. It’s our biological imperative. A small segment of the population at any given time can restrain these imperatives for more opportune moments or choose not to.

    In that light, it’s best to just have sympathy for life and those who make it and respect those who do choose otherwise.

    Also, shitty question. Instigating a bunch of finger-pointing and arguing with loaded questions is childish. Don’t do that here.

    • qvi8dhqln@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
      310·
      3 days ago

      A genuine one tho. What deives people who KNOW they are going to go broke and struggle IF they make a child? What’s a “biological imperative”? Are you suggesting we are animals who cannot choose?

      • MrOtingocni@lemmy.world
        3·
        3 days ago

        What I am suggesting is that there is something disingenuous about your posts. You’ve been here 4 days, have posted 4 topics, with one cross-posted, that seem written in a way to stir up arguments. You’ve made 30+ comments but none outside of your own topics.

        Do you always join communities and immediately start posting provocative questions while ignoring all the other content?

        What’s your purpose for being here in the fediverse?

        • qvi8dhqln@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
          15·
          3 days ago

          Thats your assumption. I am just not interested enough in other people’s shit, thats all. Why would I be? 🙂 Is it a bad thing? I mind my own business and do my own thoughts

          • MrOtingocni@lemmy.world
            3·
            3 days ago

            But your answer tells us a lot more about your purpose than you probably meant to. If you came here with the intent to only interact in the topics you post, a narrative you’re crafting with the shape of the aggregate of questions, revolving around divisive social topics, then you’re not here to be a contributing member of a community but instead came with an agenda.