We used to have that adage about how anonymity made people worse on the internet. It always made me feel uneasy. We hit 2025, and I was dismayed to find it was wrong - the internet was a warning bell for how evil the average person is.
People were bigger assholes back in the day. If anything they’ve gotten better
everyone is evil to somebody else.
it’s that before the internet we largely weren’t exposed to all sorts of people who were radically different than us on a regular basis. most of us were mostly exposed to people who were mostly similar to us.
and in real life, most folks are still mostly exposed to folks who are similar to them
Yeah, and the problem is the Internet isn’t even a real exposure, it sucks. I don’t know that there’s a replacement for just living around people, seeing them in stores, in your community, and just existing around them. Even the boogeyman seems less scary when you see it going about it’s day to day life. It’s hard to realize people are humans on the internet, especially because it is never a display of your mundanity, but if your quirks and the things that make you interesting.
That’s why Lemmy is great, because this place is mundane af.
Yeah a lot of online interaction is also just like… projection of the reader/viewer.
Can’t agree with you that it’s mundane here. I find a lot of spaces here to completely detached from any humanity or reality and a lot of the users here to believing in fictional worlds in their heads where they are the only good person who exists and it’s everyone else that is evil.
But there are some pretty cool stuff that reminds me of early reddit where I had a lot of cool and educational interactions. Which sadly, stopped existing on reddit in the late 2010s as the site became systematically removed it’s ‘melting pot’ aspects that I found so fruitful and positive.
I’m sober now, I don’t smoke, I avoid sugar and only drink two coffees a day. Now I can’t even enjoy the internet. Just a whole lotta nothing to take the edge off
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I mean, seems like you haven’t tried meth!
Raw-doggin’ reality
Which movie is this from?
The internet has become too mainstream
It’s so over!
You just missed it
I know 🥺 Growing up while the internet was cool suucked!
