「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」 | (aka: 鳳凰院 凶真 Hououin Kyouma)@sh.itjust.works to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 3 months agoIs it worse to be hurt by an enemy, or be inadvertently hurt by someone that is supposed to love you?message-squaremessage-square5fedilinkarrow-up14arrow-down13
arrow-up11arrow-down1message-squareIs it worse to be hurt by an enemy, or be inadvertently hurt by someone that is supposed to love you?「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」 | (aka: 鳳凰院 凶真 Hououin Kyouma)@sh.itjust.works to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 3 months agomessage-square5fedilink
minus-squareAnchoriteMagus@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·3 months agoInadvertent is an accident. People don’t deserve blame or anger for accidents. If an enemy hurts you, it’s malicious.
minus-squarePasserby6497@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·3 months agoOnly once or twice. Past that, they’re not fixing the problem intentionally.
minus-squareAnchoriteMagus@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·3 months agoThen it wouldn’t be inadvertent anymore, right?
minus-squarePasserby6497@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·3 months agoYes, but you’d be surprised how many times it takes for some people to realize that the “inadvertent mistake” was something the other person never cared to resolve.
Inadvertent is an accident. People don’t deserve blame or anger for accidents.
If an enemy hurts you, it’s malicious.
Only once or twice. Past that, they’re not fixing the problem intentionally.
Then it wouldn’t be inadvertent anymore, right?
Yes, but you’d be surprised how many times it takes for some people to realize that the “inadvertent mistake” was something the other person never cared to resolve.