• agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works
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    9 days ago

    Depends on how realistic your expectations are for yourself.

    If your comparison is aspirational, identifying places where others succeed so you can figure out how to adopt their methods yourself, it can be quite beneficial.

    If you’re not adopting an active-improvement mindset, and you’re essentially just dick-measuring, then yeah you’re eventually gonna be miserable. There’s always a bigger dick.