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  • hperrin@lemmy.catoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    4 days ago

    Sure someone can learn techniques and stuff, but if their genitals and/or naked body are not sexually attractive to you, or vice versa, that’s something that’s better to find out before getting the government involved.

    Or if the things that turn you on turn him off or vice versa, that’s also something that’s better to know early.

    So it’s not really about “bad” in bed. It’s whether what they like to do is something that satisfies you sexually, and whether what you like to do is something that satisfies them sexually.


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    I don’t know if that’s reasonable. If you’re only saying that to “filter out” people, then you’re going to filter out good people. But if a guy is being too pushy when you say you want to wait, you don’t need to lie about waiting for marriage to test him, just break it off because he’s being pushy.