• lonefighter@sh.itjust.works
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    4 hours ago

    My cat loves being held (he will come beg to be picked up and will throw a tantrum if I refuse) and he likes me to hold him similar to how you would hold a baby you would be trying to burp. I scoop him up so he is facing my torso with his head at my chin level, front paws on my shoulder, and one of my arms is under his butt and back legs supporting them in a sitting position and my other arm is free to either pet him or wrap around his back and hug him. He loves being hugged tight or snuggled and pet.

    My other cat doesn’t like being held nearly as much, but I’ve found that this is also the position that she’s happiest in. She feels physically supported and also still has autonomy to look around and move and can easily signal to me when she wants down.

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    12 hours ago

    it’s a good way to start. gives them a lot of control

    if you’re training to hold them then don’t let them jump, slowly lower them and hold them until they touch the ground

    then a treat maybe

  • 9488fcea02a9@sh.itjust.works
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    16 hours ago

    Upvote because I appreciate the MS paint drawing… and it’s a good drawing… i just noticed the elastic on the waistband…

    Most people would have used AI in this situation.

    Can we get an actual photo of cat?

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    I hold one of my cats this way. He loves it. He will, however, launch himself to a nearby landing spot very suddenly when he’s had enough. Which is also what makes this a good way of holding him, since it allows that freedom.

  • HornedMeatBeast@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    13 hours ago

    I used to hold my cats this way, normally their preferred way.

    I also liked holding their back paws while doing this, and give them a hug.

    Or I would hold them like a baby.

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    22 hours ago

    A lot of cats do that when I pick them up. A lot of times I’ll adjust my grip and flip them over a cradle them like a baby. No cat has taken issue with it yet.

    • It seemed every cat I ever picked up was cool with cradling. Then for years it seemed like not one cat would put up with it. Now I have one who is more tolerant of scoop/cradle than of any other method. It just seemed weird that it kind of went different ways in phases for me. I thought it would be more random.

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      22 hours ago

      Funny enough my old cat only had an issue with being cradled, absolutely hated it, but had no problem being held out like a gun and pretend fired

  • AFK BRB Chocolate (CA version)@lemmy.ca
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    20 hours ago

    I agree with everyone who says it’s cat dependent with a lot of variation. My cat’s favorite way of being held is for me to stick my arm through both sets of legs from behind so she’s straddling my forearm, and my hand is holding her chest below her neck. She’ll happily sit like that for ages, especially if I’m moving around and she can watch the scenery.

    A prior cat preferred to be held like a baby, on his back cradled in our arms, but my current cat hates that.

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    20 hours ago

    I’ve had two cats who loved this and would hang out in my arms as long as I could hold them, and I’ve had one that hates it and would rather I just let his rear legs dangle awkwardly.