• RBWells@lemmy.world
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    13 hours ago

    Sexy time? No thanks

    Movie? No thanks

    What do you want to do?

    Sit on the porch with you, have a drink and talk, go for a walk, sleep, whatever.

    Why not just ask? Or:

    I’m gonna watch Hot Fuzz, do you want to?

    OMG you are so hot I want you right now.

    Not that it’s someone’s responsibility to know how to ask things, but I think it does help to you know, know your partner. Someone asking “sexy time?” wouldn’t make me want sex, and I might want to watch a movie if I know which one.

    Even better - "I’m gonna play Genshin, unless you wanna watch a movie, is there anything you want to watch? "

    Like, there are probably a thousand better ways to approach this. Maybe it’s in the delivery not the suggestions.