Feeling judged by my female friends.

  • Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 months ago

    If you’re cleaning the toilet and doing laundry regularly you’re already ahead of a lot of men. As long as you have a clean way to prep food and no health hazards in the environment the rest is bonus points as far as I’m concerned. Yeah, there’s an unfolded bag of laundry in my room and clutter on the coffee table; I live here.

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      3 months ago

      If you’re cleaning the toilet and doing laundry regularly you’re already ahead of a lot of men.

      There was a time that I had my slut-era post divorce and was seeing several different people. At one point, I was over at 3 different men’s houses over the course of a couple days and not a single one of them had handsoap anywhere in their house. I had a laugh ngl.

      But also maybe give the shower a scrub once in a while along with the toilet, yeah?

      • Heydo@lemmy.world
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        3 months ago

        Did you look in their showers? There’s perfectly good shampoo you can use for that /s

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      3 months ago

      I like to cook and preserve food, so my kitchen is clean. Also keep up on the dishes and do the kitchen floor twice a week. If I leave clean laundry around that’s where the dogs want to curl up and nap.

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        3 months ago

        Honestly, keeping the kitchen and the bathroom relatively clean is the key. Everything else can get cluttered until you have the energy and time! You’re doing great :)