I literally only remember like the outlines of events, I don’t remember like the colors of clothing, or exact words of converasations, or like smell of the room. How the f do people remember that stuff? Like, no way they have photographic memory, do they just partly invent detail?

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    Some people keep journals. When those people write their autobiographies, they can check the records.

    Other people have good memories.

    It’s probably also more important for it to be a good story than for it to be 100% accurate.

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    Many autibiographies are personal whitewashing. So it is more a question of creativity than of memory.

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      Almost all, would be more accurate. And some even unintentional, we tend to unconsciously modify our memory to make ourselves look better

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    You talk to people you shared those experiences with. Someone is bound to have remembered something different you didn’t

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    It definitely varies between people as well. For instance, my sister (with no genetic relation to me) has much better memory than me, which seemed almost superhuman to me when I was growing up. Although, I have since realized that my memory is much worse than average, to the extent where I probably have one or more memory disorders. I’m sure that some people have memory that is much better than average, whether or not my sister is one of them.